I set up a therapist appointment like I needed to and also I want hugs and snuggles

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Standard pinned post across instances:

If you can't be bothered to Google anything related to trans, gay, or mental health issues (particularly re: depression, anxiety, ADHD, BPD), and insist that I engage with you about them, I will do so for a fee of $50.

For that, you can ask me 5 questions, which I will answer to the best of my ability.

The point of this is that Google is free, and my time and patience for cishet/neurotypical bullshit are not.

me: no no the use of the "trans" prefix is coincidental, "transgender" and "transition" are not at all the same thing
also me: there's zero difference between transhumanism and being transgender actually

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There is no such thing as having dated or fucked too many trans women. I know it’s hard to accept and sometimes even harder to see, but trans women, we are beautiful women. Trans is just a modifier that says we’re a particular variety of women. The noun is β€œwoman.” You are a woman. A womany woman. You’re doing woman activities with woman tendencies.
And surprise bitch, a number of people in this world are looking at you and thinking β€œwhat a woman. πŸ˜β€

Remember to be friendly to people that are literally corporate human firewalls (customer support people).

They usually don't get paid well and have to deal with the anger and frustration caused by fuckups in boardrooms, not their own.

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I don't want the GRC reform to succeed to score some symbolic victory and set my pension right

I need it to as a matter of personal safety, so that I can stop outing and potentially endangering myself every time I have to show ID or travel, or having to argue with people over it

My passport isn't British. I can't change the gender marker without a GRC equivalent from the country I'm resident in; I can't even invoke that other country's gender recognition laws unless I go back

Dual citizens' British passports must match the name and gender on the other

It really ticks me off how much of discourse about gender recognition certificates is framed with the caveat of "it doesn't matter all that much, because you can just change the gender marker on your passport anyhow"

newsflash: that only works if your one nationality is British

RT @DegenerateThing@twitter.com: Elizabeth πŸ‘ Warren πŸ‘is πŸ‘not πŸ‘indigenousπŸ‘

πŸ¦πŸ”—: twitter.com/DegenerateThing/st

Please boost if your account is safe for non-binary people. :nonbinary: :nb:

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